WHO WE ARE
Lux Velvet is Ottawa’s most exciting party collective for the non-monogamous and the curious. We create unforgettable experiences for those who identify as polyamorous, in open relationships, swingers, or simply exploring. Our events are designed for open-minded, sex-positive people who want to connect, dance, and indulge in something a little more adventurous.
We host a mix of public and private events, but it’s our members-only parties where the real magic happens—exclusive, adult-themed gatherings in chic hotels, stylish private clubs, and one-of-a-kind venues across the city. These experiences are intimate, upscale, and built around respectful, vibrant community energy. Access is invite-only, and each guest is personally vetted to ensure every event feels safe, sexy, and genuinely fun.
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To join the inner circle, your journey starts at one of our Lux Velvet Mixers or Dance Parties, held every other month at a new Ottawa venue. These themed events are open to everyone 19+ and are the perfect chance to dress up, let loose, and party with other singles and couples who share your values. They’re high-energy meet & greets where you can mingle with sex-positive, like-minded people in a no-pressure, welcoming environment. If you're interested in becoming a member, attending a Mixer is your chance to get vetted for our private parties.
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We take the community seriously. That means no creepy vibes, no pressure, and absolutely no tolerance for disrespect. Gone are the days of awkward conversations with someone three times your age or dealing with people who don’t take no for an answer. Everyone at our events understands the importance of consent and creating a welcoming space. And if a problem ever arises, our strict one-strike policy ensures it’s addressed immediately—your comfort and safety come first.
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Want access to the best private parties Ottawa has to offer? Become a Lux Velvet Member and unlock a world of curated, adult-themed experiences with the most vibrant, respectful crowd in the city. We only accept those who meet our Lux Velvet Standard—because unforgettable nights start with incredible people.
All of our parties prioritize the safety and comfort of everyone attending and we take extra care to make sure that there is absolutely no shady, disrespectful or creepy behaviour at our events. We carefully select our venues to make sure that they prioritize making everyone feel safe and comfortable at all times. Belligerent, bigoted or rude behaviour simply will not be tolerated. Women or female identified people can feel absolutely comfortable coming to our events with their friends or even solo knowing that they will not be gawked at or pressured by others attending. Same goes for queer folks, people of colour or any other people who sometimes are made to feel uncomfortable at clubs, Lux Velvet acknowledges this problem and is actively trying to provide a space for everyone to enjoy.
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All events are 19+
Meet Our Team
Lux Velvet is female owned and operated out of Ottawa, ON.
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Our team is dedicated to creating parties that even young solo women like us can feel comfortable attending, even for a play party. We strive everyday to make our parties welcoming and fun while protecting our guest's privacy and wellbeing.
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Guests will always see us at our parties and know that they can come chat with us at any time with concerns, questions and more.
Nicole
(She/ Her)
Half of the Lux Velvet team, Nicole is a professional photographer and entrepreneur. She has been a part of the non-monogamous and more specifically swinger lifestyle for years and prides herself on creating spaces for women of all sizes and ages to embrace their sexuality and above all, have fun.
Alexandria
(She/ Her)
The other half of the Lux Velvet Team, Alexandria comes from an academic background with experience as an educator and writer. Having been a part of the poly, queer and kink communities for years, she strives to provide a safe and welcoming environment for everyone to explore.
